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When there is life problems are bound to be there. It is all upon you how you handle life’s problems. Sometimes it seems too much and you cannot handle the tough situation which life throws at you. Have a cool head because taking too much tension or losing your peace of mind is not going to be of any help. You have to face every problem with a brave heart and have faith “This too shall Pass”. This very thinking will help you tide over tough circumstances. Handle life’s problems one at a time.

Life is both sweet and sour. All of us are hurt and go through pain in our lifetime. It is how you deal with it that matters. Crying, complaining and repeating the incidents in your mind again and again will not help you. What will be helpful is your understanding of the problem and how to get over it. You can control your own self but you cannot control another person’s behavior and the outside situations and circumstances. The other person may behave wrongly with you though you may not have committed a very big mistake and hurt you.

I have always pondered over the question as to what you should do when the wait gets longer than usual? My own life gave me answers by means of several instances. It is recently that I have found that whenever I have waited for something more than its usual time I have always wasted my time over it. I have learned my lessons the hard way and I have wasted much more than my usual time for things to get back on track so that I could start off with the next thing but sometimes nothing went according to plan and I felt stuck and lost my precious years.

I am sure you must have come across the most famous quotation that “Faith can move Mountains”. If you have faith in yourself and the higher powers which are supporting you to reach your goals you can do much more than what you thought was possible. When you start your journey - be it a job or a business or as a newly wedded bride you don’t know what will happen next but you believe that you will tide over all the rough patches or else you would not have started the journey. There are various circumstances which a person has to go through before he can know what to do next.

Tough times are testing times and it can test you till your core. It tests your patience and your total being. Your mind stops working, you don’t know what to do and you keep worrying. You just want to get out of that situation. You want a helping hand which can pull you through those tough times. You lose your night’s sleep, overthink, overwork and still, the tough situation does not seem to end. You can face a tough situation in personal life, in work or any relationship which adds meaning to your life. The more you replay those hard moments in your mind the more you get demotivated.

God gave us this wonderful life and when there is life there is bound to be problems. Then what to do forget about the problem? Leave it for tomorrow? Or find out a solution then and there so that we can move ahead in life. There are few problems which cannot be sorted in the present and what you can do is give it some time. Think over it again and again only to come back to it with a better solution. You cannot solve each and every problem immediately. Some problems take longer time than usual.

I think almost all of us struggle at some or other point in life and wanted more options in life but we get less or no options. The situation just chokes you and stirs you till your core and you want to get out of everything but you feel stuck because you don’t have a choice. You just have to face that situation as it is because there is no option of getting out of it. You feel helpless, feel like crying, frustrated, complain, get angry at people who brought you to this situation, want to just shout and yell at all the nonsense but you don’t get those options.

All of us are thankful to God that he gave us these wonderful feet with which we can walk. You can walk and go to places. You can start your bright day by standing on these feet and feel grateful that you have the power to walk and control your destiny. When you go for an interview you just walk inside the interviewer's chamber and take your seat. When you need to walk away from a situation you just take your feet backward and leave the chaos. You enter the temple with these feet.

Let Go of the past if it hurts and look beyond the present into a new and brighter future which you cannot see now. If you are too stuck up in the past you spoil not only your present but also your future. Past is past and you have to leave it and move on even if gives you goosebumps and makes your life difficult. I know past memories never leave our mind. When we are active in the day to day activities everything is ok and fine it is only when we are free that all the past memories gather and creates havoc in our life.

I am sure most of you want to look beautiful and have flawless skin throughout life. Aging takes a toll not only on the body but also on the skin. Especially for ladies who are nearing their Menopause, the skin feels dry, dull, develop acne, fine lines, wrinkles, and dark spots. When you are young you don’t have skin issues, it is only when you start aging that the skin develops certain problems due to changes in hormonal levels in the body. What you can do is worry less and find out a proper solution which will last long.