Love is the most powerful tool on earth. With love, you can do anything because the energy is so positive that even the Gods come down on earth to help you deal with every problem you are facing. Sometimes we just fall in love with someone and I would say that is love at first sight. It is more of infatuation than real love. It is only with the passage of time that your love gets tested. When you think about the same person even after many months that means you are serious about your love.
Our life is full of good and bad moments. I would say they are part of life and everything happens in life for a reason. The reason is to make us a better person so that we can fulfill God’s purpose in the best way. The almighty God created us for a reason and everything which happens in our life happens to move us in the right direction so that we can make the most out of life and fulfill God’s purpose. I am a very positive person but the past one month has been the toughest to deal with. I have mourned and literally sought help from everyone including God so that my life got better.
In Geeta Saar, it is written: “Whatever happens happens for good”. Now I am going to discuss my own life’s experience as to how good or how bad. I can say one thing with surety that whenever a big change is about to happen there is no intimation as to it is going to happen. We have to accept it whether we are mentally prepared or not. Sometimes you will cry and get disheartened but have faith that whatever is happening is happening for good and the present situation is preparing us for the future. The past experiences are also something which has to be kept in mind.
I am a soft skills trainer so I understand as to how important it is to express ourselves at all times. Be it at home or at the office it is important to speak up your mind so that you never feel the burden of not speaking. People who keep their words to their own selves are those who are burdened by the baggage of not speaking and hence they become an introvert. It is only when you speak what you want to, that you learn the art of self-expression.
Ever thought what our life would have been without challenges. The daily challenges which we encounter make us strong from within, keeps us going and makes us rough and tough to face any situation. If we do not face challenges in life our life would be dull and the spark would be missing. I know how difficult it can be at times when you are faced with a challenge which you are not ready to encounter but then I also know that when you overcome those bad days you are a new person who is stronger than before. It is all upon you how you see life and how you face life’s challenges.
A human life is a sum total of all the ingredients combined together. You need to have hope, Self Confidence, courage, faith in God, self-discipline, and patience to lead a good life. For the first time in my life, I have understood the importance of patience. You need to have patience with your family, friends and your own self so that you can hold on and not let go. There will be times when your patience will be tested to the full potential much more than you can take but then you have to be positive and then move on.
My lone fight with my disease has built me as a person I am today. I know when a person fights with his diseases it either makes him or breaks him. Very few people know how difficult the fight is and it can make you or break you down to pieces but I also know that it is not easy to break a strong person. Here I am sharing my experience where I have fought with my Endometriosis and Adenomyosis. The fight was difficult. Everyday life was a struggle but I had only two options left either give in or fight. I decided to fight because that is what my Dad has taught me.
I sometimes think God chose me for all the health problems so that I got tough from within and inspired other people not to give up and fight their daily battles with full confidence. I would say every health problem which has come in life I have conquered it with full faith and a belief that God is with me and within me. I strongly believe that I am born to lead a great and successful life where I stand as an inspiration for other people. I want people to feel proud when they take my name.
This is my third life. Chill readers don’t think too much. First life - when I was born, 2nd when I had my baby and 3rd when I overcame all my troubling health problems with a will to say a big “HI” to my life once again. Life can pull you down and even your health can get on your nerves to the extent that you may want to end everything and leave for the heavenly abode but there are few fighters which are created by God who are not ready to give in. Those are the ones who conquers not only their health problems but also every problem.
Happy Father’s day Papa. There are so many things that this 36 years young daughter wants to share with you and i thought nothing would be best medium to express my love for you other than my own blog where you can read it someday and know the depth of my feelings. Though it is a challenge and very hard for me to put my true feelings in words but i have given it a try. Papa you know I always call you “My Best Dad in the World”. You are the best dad for me “I Love You” and am “Thankful” to you for everything you did for me. From the time i am born you are with me.