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My life has changed a lot in the last 3 years. What stays unchanged is the people around me, the sun, moon, stars, and the entire universe which is still the same. When I look back there is only one dominating thought in my mind. What I gained or lost? I cannot delete the past nor can I “ctrl Z” 10 to 12 years of my life so that I have the option to live it again and make it a memorable one. I have lived a great life with my parents. My dad loves me a lot. Till the age of 28 years, my dad managed almost everything for me. I have lived the life of a princess.

I went to see Durga Puja Pandal today and as I reached midway something amazing happened. I saw a chariot waiting for me to take me to my home. Is it real or again a fantasy? I told you people that I have not slept properly for the last 20 days. The Sleep-deprived body always creates problems for me. Guess who is sitting on the chariot? It is my better half whom I married on 6/10/2019 (Durga Ashtami). Got the person? Not yet? I think you people have also lost your sleep like I have lost mine.

I think today’s topic is the most sought after topic. What do you do when you want to change your destiny. I have changed mine with the help of the divine and if you want to change your’s you can always take help from the higher powers. God will never deny you anything but then you should have the power to create a life that you want to live. When I was going through the worst phase of my life and could not contain my sorrows anymore and no advice could help me, there was only one person who could help me and that was none other than my God. So I reached out to her.

Today I chose a topic on which I have listened to lots of videos and even read articles online. I am a very curious kind of person and when there a question in my mind, I need an answer to it. I cannot settle down with assumptions but I need solid proof as to why I feel strongly for someone who is not related to me in anyways and feel distanced from people who are very close to me in my personal life. I started searching for my answers and came to various conclusions and there are also few threads that still lying loose but I know I will get my answers.

Today I would like to take all of my readers on a beautiful journey of the bond which I share with my dad, first Guru of my Life.

Happy Father’s day Papa. There are so many things that this 36 years young daughter wants to share with you and i thought nothing would be best medium to express my love for you other than my own blog where you can read it someday and know the depth of my feelings. Though it is a challenge and very hard for me to put my true feelings in words but i have given it a try. Papa you know I always call you “My Best Dad in the World”. You are the best dad for me “I Love You” and am “Thankful” to you for everything you did for me. From the time i am born you are with me.

Every time i see my child i ask myself the same question, Have i given enough time to my child ? In the fast moving scenario, with growing responsibilities and so much work load we find it difficult to share quality time with our child. There is a difference between staying together in the same house with kids for 8 – 10 hours and spending quality time with them. I can be at home doing office work or just watching television. That is not quality time, quality time is just being with the child and concentrating on him/her. Playing, spending time together or watching movies.

Goals occupy an important aspect in our life. The thing which needs to be kept in mind while setting goals is when dreaming, dream big. Big and higher goals can be achieved by coming out of our comfort zone. Comfort zone is a zone which we have fixed for ourselves, we feel very relaxed and tension free in this zone as there are no day to day challenges. But when we aim big we have to move out of our comfort zone. we cannot reach great heights by staying in our comfort zone. Moving out of the zone is not easy.

The training program was organized by Dr Archana Jaiswal, President JCI Nag Feme. It was a training program on Empowering youth. The students were from 10th and 12 th back ground. All males. It was the first time i was interacting with full male audience. I started the session with a video on motivation to charge them. I shared with them all motivational thinking and real life experiences. They were really charged after the session. I could see the success of my training program on their faces.