God

I think this is a question which must be there in everybody’s mind that what do I want to do in my life? Or What I want from my life? This life is the gift of God to you. You only live once and die once, in between you have got a life to live where you experience the joys and pains of living a life. It sometimes seems that we are living our lives in a straight line, it is only when you go through all the twists and turns that you understand that life is much more than you understand or can perceive beyond your imagination.

I firmly believe that all the people who are in my life are meant to be in life be it my friends, family, neighbors or people who are away from me and connected through Facebook and WhatsApp. All of them are meant to be in my life for one or the other reason and that’s why they are in my life. Few people entered knowingly and others unknowingly, I love the presence of all of them. Some are of my age while some are younger to me while there are many with whom my thoughts connect but they are much older to me.

It is raining in Nagpur and the weather is simply great so for the first rains in the monsoon season I thought of writing about love. I want to put forth my ideas about love and want to discuss what it is not and what it is? Love is a feeling which always grows with passing time and never fades away. If it vanishes then it is not love. What most people think about love is just a small part of the big ocean which is yet to be discovered. When you fall in love it is true your mind goes foggy and you cannot think about anything other than the person whom you love madly.

All of you know that we have the option to refresh a page when it does not load correctly or hangs midway. We immediately refresh the page so that we can view the desired page so is life there are times when you will have to press the refresh button of life so that you can start again because when you are stuck you have the only option to move ahead because you cannot go and mend the past so it is better to accept the present and move on with life.

I hope all of you will agree with me that you should always face your fears or they will haunt you in the night. The biggest problem with most of us is that we run away from things which we cannot face or don’t want to face because we fear we may not get desired result or a complete rejection which will break our heart. I would say face your deadliest fears so that it never troubles you again in your life, at least you know the reality and you are not in the fantasy world which you created.

This topic is something which struck my head today so I wanted to write about it. I am writing my own experiences here. After going through so much in my life after my marriage of 12 years has molded me and has even taught me a few harsh lessons which I was never aware of when I was single living my life blissfully with my parents. My realizations and my thinking have changed as I am maturing as a person and I have realized that the first person who is important in my life is me “Myself” because if I am not happy from inside how can others around me be happy?

Today I wanted to write about myself and my association with the divine energy who was and is always with me guiding me and helping me in all possible ways. I have got a big association with God from the time I understood that there is something which is much beyond this realm and that is God. You pray to him, love him and get associated with him, he will give you peace and love in return. All prayers are not answered by God, neither are all wishes fulfilled but there is a reason behind everything.

Life is a game which every human being has to play. You cannot exit the game before your time comes and there is no way you can move back into the past or fast forward into the future. You just have one life, one game and the present moment to make things happen. You cannot quit so you have to face the challenges life throws at you. You cannot say “I cannot face them” because I am not ready. I need to learn lessons of how I should deal with the problem which has come then I will deal with it.

It is my personal experience that when you feel lost and do not know which way to go, just keep walking till you gain clarity in your thoughts and you can see a way. It is my own personal experience, after living a family life for 11 years and being busy with my career my life crashed all of a sudden, I took a break from my career for 2 years before I figured out which way to go.

God gave you one life so live it fully. Live your life and achieve your dreams. Live gracefully so that you do not have to repent later and go to your death bed thinking I want one more life to live my dreams. What’s stopping you, there is nothing in this whole world which can stop you from living a life of your dreams or achieving your goals. Every person’s goal is different so do not compare your life with others because that will only steal away your happiness. If you truly want to be happy just be yourself and live blissfully.