Motivation & Inspiration

In Today’s world when everything around us is getting sophisticated and artificial, why do we complicate life further? There is nothing which is wrong in sophistication but the power games which people play just to show off how big they are and how small others are, then it wrong. I would say the more simple things get, it gets easy to use them. You love your old phone which you bought just 1 year ago and now something new is in the market, though you do not need this new phone with new features you go ahead and spend a big chunk of money to own this phone so that you feel trendy.

I know this topic itself sounds crazy and you people must be thinking about what I am going to write. Just chill today I am penning down my own experiences and things which I have seen so read on to find more what I have to write about today’s topic. Well, you will see that whenever you overanalyze a problem it never really solves it but gets more problematic or it never needed the attention which you gave and sorted out on its own without your interference.

All of you know that we have the option to refresh a page when it does not load correctly or hangs midway. We immediately refresh the page so that we can view the desired page so is life there are times when you will have to press the refresh button of life so that you can start again because when you are stuck you have the only option to move ahead because you cannot go and mend the past so it is better to accept the present and move on with life.

I hope all of you will agree with me that you should always face your fears or they will haunt you in the night. The biggest problem with most of us is that we run away from things which we cannot face or don’t want to face because we fear we may not get desired result or a complete rejection which will break our heart. I would say face your deadliest fears so that it never troubles you again in your life, at least you know the reality and you are not in the fantasy world which you created.

This topic is something which struck my head today so I wanted to write about it. I am writing my own experiences here. After going through so much in my life after my marriage of 12 years has molded me and has even taught me a few harsh lessons which I was never aware of when I was single living my life blissfully with my parents. My realizations and my thinking have changed as I am maturing as a person and I have realized that the first person who is important in my life is me “Myself” because if I am not happy from inside how can others around me be happy?

Life is a game which every human being has to play. You cannot exit the game before your time comes and there is no way you can move back into the past or fast forward into the future. You just have one life, one game and the present moment to make things happen. You cannot quit so you have to face the challenges life throws at you. You cannot say “I cannot face them” because I am not ready. I need to learn lessons of how I should deal with the problem which has come then I will deal with it.

Yoga is a set of body movements along with controlling your breath which heals your body and soul. Yoga connects you to the core of your body and takes you to a different dimension where you are at peace. You will see the difference within yourself when you start doing yoga, your body will get different, your thinking will change, you will get less angry and you will be more at peace. I would say yoga is a way of life and every person should do yoga in spite of his age. You need to check which postures are comfortable for you and then move ahead accordingly.

It is my personal experience that when you feel lost and do not know which way to go, just keep walking till you gain clarity in your thoughts and you can see a way. It is my own personal experience, after living a family life for 11 years and being busy with my career my life crashed all of a sudden, I took a break from my career for 2 years before I figured out which way to go.

God gave you one life so live it fully. Live your life and achieve your dreams. Live gracefully so that you do not have to repent later and go to your death bed thinking I want one more life to live my dreams. What’s stopping you, there is nothing in this whole world which can stop you from living a life of your dreams or achieving your goals. Every person’s goal is different so do not compare your life with others because that will only steal away your happiness. If you truly want to be happy just be yourself and live blissfully.

I am sure many of you would have come across this proverb “Something which doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”. You get strong after a failed marriage, a failed long term relationship, an unsuccessful career or failure in sports. I would say failure doesn’t kill you but makes you stronger. If you would not have failed in your life you would not have been stronger nor you would have grown as a person. When you fail at something again and again or even once you realize your mistakes and you become smart enough not to repeat them again.