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God gave us this wonderful life and when there is life there is bound to be problems. Then what to do forget about the problem? Leave it for tomorrow? Or find out a solution then and there so that we can move ahead in life. There are few problems which cannot be sorted in the present and what you can do is give it some time. Think over it again and again only to come back to it with a better solution. You cannot solve each and every problem immediately. Some problems take longer time than usual.

I think almost all of us struggle at some or other point in life and wanted more options in life but we get less or no options. The situation just chokes you and stirs you till your core and you want to get out of everything but you feel stuck because you don’t have a choice. You just have to face that situation as it is because there is no option of getting out of it. You feel helpless, feel like crying, frustrated, complain, get angry at people who brought you to this situation, want to just shout and yell at all the nonsense but you don’t get those options.

All of us are thankful to God that he gave us these wonderful feet with which we can walk. You can walk and go to places. You can start your bright day by standing on these feet and feel grateful that you have the power to walk and control your destiny. When you go for an interview you just walk inside the interviewer's chamber and take your seat. When you need to walk away from a situation you just take your feet backward and leave the chaos. You enter the temple with these feet.

Let Go of the past if it hurts and look beyond the present into a new and brighter future which you cannot see now. If you are too stuck up in the past you spoil not only your present but also your future. Past is past and you have to leave it and move on even if gives you goosebumps and makes your life difficult. I know past memories never leave our mind. When we are active in the day to day activities everything is ok and fine it is only when we are free that all the past memories gather and creates havoc in our life.

I am sure most of you want to look beautiful and have flawless skin throughout life. Aging takes a toll not only on the body but also on the skin. Especially for ladies who are nearing their Menopause, the skin feels dry, dull, develop acne, fine lines, wrinkles, and dark spots. When you are young you don’t have skin issues, it is only when you start aging that the skin develops certain problems due to changes in hormonal levels in the body. What you can do is worry less and find out a proper solution which will last long.

Hang on and Don’t quit because the best is yet to come. There are various life circumstances when quitting seems easier than holding on because holding on seems difficult and tiring. I would say don’t quit because that is the time things will turn in your favor. A lot of people keep trying and when they are just nearing success they just quit because they cannot persevere anymore and just think that they have reached the dead end and now they cannot move any further.

Life makes sense only when there is peace and when you lose it there is something which is out of order and needs to be fixed. You all clean your homes and offices but what about your own life. You need to clear your life of all the unnecessary stuff so that you have room for all the good things in life.

I am writing this article based on my own experience with hormonal imbalance. I delivered my baby in the year 2008 and since then my life was never normal. She was delivered through a Cesarean delivery. After a few months, I started facing problems of heavy bleeding. I consulted my Gynecologist and she said that I was having problems of hormonal imbalance. I had mood swings too which really took away my peace of mind. She treated me on birth control pills which never sorted out my problem. She gave me medicines to curb my periods but that too didn’t help much.

I have realized what boredom is? and how difficult it can get at times when you really don’t feel like doing anything. You don’t know what to do with those 24 hours and passing a single hour seems like ages. I am sure a lot of us have felt this way and with a fast-paced life when everyone around you is busy you feel left out. You can get bored with a routine life, day to day activities or due to loneliness because you have no one to talk to.

This very idea of second marriage would always strike my mind as to why someone really decides to go ahead with a second option or second marriage. Why people do not try and make their first marriage successful rather than going for a second option. I have already read about how film stars get divorced mutually rather than fighting the years-long legal battle in the court and move ahead with the second marriage. I know you all must have ideas of how these people marry for second time and some even three times before they find their real soulmate and settle down in their life.